Please forgive this unsolicited inquiry, but I just don't know where else to turn. I have purchased your excellent book, "The Gift of Sex" and recommend it to couples I counsel. I have a sensitive question that I do not feel comfortable asking anyone who knows me. It has to do with feelings of inadequacy on my part of not "measuring up" due to the particular way my sexual anatomy is set up. Although my penis works fine, rightly and or wrongly, I feel the extreme smallness of my penis is an incredible obstacle for me to overcome (emotionally), although my wife is lovingly accepting of me (I am thankful for this for sure).

Where can I obtain a straight answer from a Christian resource on whether or not it is possible to increase the size of my penis? Is there an herbal product, growth hormone, safe steroid, exercise or procedure that I can purchase or procedure that I can purchase to safely alter the size of my penis?

I have tried to use the Internet to do some research but as you can imagine, I find it difficult if almost impossible to safely surf the Internet with integrity on this subject without encountering pornographic entrepreneurs. I want to avoid pornography at all costs.

I am so embarrassed to write this email but I just want to know from an expert if this is a situation where there is hope and help or I just need to resign myself to accepting the equipment "as is" as God has fashioned me. 

You are not alone in your concern. Many men struggle with issues regarding penis size. Although there are no proven methods to increasing the size of any body parts, there would be nothing wrong with a three month or so trial of those solutions so frequently advertised on the Internet. The only concern would be any medical side affects, which would be best checked out with your physician, yet from your message, it is unlikely that you will be comfortable bringing this to him. We may be able to refer you to a medical doctor in a larger city nearby who specializes in male sexual issues. 

To avoid the pornographic temptation, you might have your wife do the Internet research for you or with you. There are some steps you can try. First, there is a supplement (vitamin) that we have checked out thoroughly and highly recommend for all men to enhance genital and reproductive health. It is Prostrate Support Formula 600 for Men by Natures Life. Take two a day. You are likely to find it at a health food store. There are other similar products by other companies, but this is the one we have researched. 

What we would also recommend is that you actually measure your penis with a cloth tape measure when it is fully erect. Measure length and circumference at the fullest ridge. We have a chart of the range of penis sizes so we could feedback to you where you actually are on that chart. That information would also give you a baseline to make some before and after comparisons if you should start taking the supplement and/or try any other enhancement possibilities.

Our conviction and teaching is that penis size does not matter at all. It is only in the lower 1 1/2" to 2" of the vagina that the women receives pleasure and the vaginal opening (that 1 1/2" to 2") is controlled by a group of muscles so it can tighten or stretch as much as is needed to accommodate any size penis. Yet we know that you are not alone in your concern and your feelings may not be relieved by this information.

Keep us informed of your process.

For Further Exploration:
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The Gift of Sex

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